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The beard, the chub, the food…yes.
This is probably a little more NSFW than I tend to get on here. On the other hand, male shirtlessness is not taboo and I post pictures of food all the time, so…
Heh, I know that’s just an excuse. Sexy as all get out.
(via bubbablues)Source: fatmanrocks1
Something I’m learning about gainers that’s interesting: their sexuality appears to be wired completely differently from even mine as an encourager because their sexual arousal (through no fault of their own) is totally self-oriented. 99% of humans achieve sexual arousal from others (straight men checking out a woman’s breasts, a gay guy gawking at another man’s chiseled abs or the bulge in his jeans, and even chasers/encouragers admiring a fat man’s belly). The vast majority of gainers, however, seem to achieve it almost exclusively from their OWN bodies. They need the encourager to talk about their own fat, their own bellies, and their own bodies—and not the encourager (mine)—in order to achieve arousal and subsequent orgasm. It sounds awfully vain to be that self-oriented/narcissistic (“I’m only aroused by thinking about myself!”), but of course it’s just the nature of this sexual paraphilia/fetish that cannot be helped or changed. Am I right? Is THIS why so many gainers want to pay the body of the encourager/chaser so little attention in the bedroom? Not that I mind, I really don’t. My own arousal is achieved via talking about fat, too, so the glaring lack of attention on me is just a side effect of being a part of this community. However, I will confess that I’ve never felt particularly attractive/handsome in this particular community for the reason that…well, neither myself nor my potential boyfriend/partner (generally) gets aroused by the way my body looks. To this day, when someone calls me handsome, I’m pleasantly surprised! Not a big deal, but I just thought I’d make a casual observation from an encourager, feeder, and chubby chaser’s perspective. This is what my sexuality is about, so I’m always sifting my way through it.